I can’t stop thinking about few things I’ve started to notice lately. I was pretty fat back in a day and I took massive action to change it. When I lost few pounds but was still chubby people around me noticed. They complemented and encouraged me. A few months later I shaped up even more and bought new clothes and now you can really tell the difference. Then I caught up with my friends again and you know what?

Radio silence. I’m not expecting people to adore me every minute, but it’s interesting. Yesterday I told them a story about how I bumped into that cute girl I used to work with the other day and that I thought she seemed very interested in me right from the beginning but I wasn't sure. The reactions of my friends were… interesting. I felt like a public enemy number one. They came up with various scenarios why she was just nice (and NOT INTERESTED, 100%) and one of them even told me that “I should lose more weight”. Funny part is that I’m currently in better shape that he is.

What is up with them? I honestly feel attacked, even though I feel great because of progress I’ve made. I’m not antagonizing them in any way. I can see few reasons, sure, but first I want to ask for your opinion, because of your neutral attitude. Thanks!