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Old Jul 24, 2020, 05:48 AM
FluffyDinosaur FluffyDinosaur is offline
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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour View Post
Mindfulness practice and learning what my triggers were were the main keys to my staying grounded. Some examples:

Mental grounding

* Take a special note of your surroundings and how much time has gone by since you did "this or that".
* Visualize a calming place that you’ve been to in the past, especially during a period you felt grounded.
* Reorient yourself to the current place and time.
* Pick your music/background noises right (to avoid more harmful feelings/daydreaming).
* Prepare for a stressful event in advance using deliberate visualization and planning how you WANT to react in various situations.

Physical grounding

* Use your 5 senses to keep yourself in the moment. What do I currently "smell", "taste", etc.
* Be aware of your breathing and the feel of the air coming in and going out.
* Drink a sip of water, or other drink and be aware of your swallowing and the feeling of it.

I also like to ask questions like "So what is this day about? What am I trying to (or want to) accomplish today?" With this in mind, it can even be good to keep a "To Do" list and cross things off as you do them or create a general outline of what you plan to do and accomplish.

Writing was/is also a very grounding task for me. Not just at places like this, but on my blog.

Thanks for the ideas, there's plenty to try there! Planning my day and reflecting on what I'm doing and want to do are definitely useful. I've been unwittingly doing that already. The mindfulness exercises are also useful, although so far I've usually reserved them for the worst moments and not so much for the chronic symptoms.
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Soupe du jour