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Be very, very, very cautious about looking to others for approval regarding your body. Regardless of what we weigh, confident people will be complimentary or not even think about weight; people who lack confidence might be mean to you.
From someone who has been model-thin, "normal" weight, and overweight, my advice is to work on your own self worth. Don't allow others to tell you who you are!
As for the girl? Of course she could be interested in you! It's absolutely ridiculous for anyone to believe otherwise. Only she knows.
I'll tell you what turns everybody off. Bitterness. "Harsh" and "ruthless" comes from a place of being bitter. Bitter is definitely never a good place to be.
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