That would really bother me. I hate even being called a victim. To me being a victim means I allowed it to ruin my life. Which it did not. I know that may not be how it is generally viewed bit it is to me. I also dislike survivor.

Anyway, awww is too sicky sweet for me. When I started seeing my current T, when I talked about my amazing and thoughtful husband she always said awww...it did her on my nerves a bit but I reminded myself it is likely because people like him are hard to find, especially with people with my history.