When I came home, our baby was asleep on his shoulder. He asked if I could take her so he could take a break. I said it wasn't a good
idea because if we transfer her, she'll wake up. I'm thinking about HER. He said, "Fine. Do what "you" WANT".. again, like I'm being selfish and unreasonable.

Then he comes back wanting to talk further about the carport. I said no because she was still sleeping on his shoulder. I didn't want to wake her up and timing was just off. He ignored me and continued. I asked if I needed to leave or shut the door? He said I was being "controlling".. and then told me to just leave. I opted to close the door, instead. I was EXTRA CAREFUL as to not "shut the door on his face". He walked away, letting me close the door over.

See how a SIMPLE scenario about the carport turned into something negative between him and I? He asked me why I just wouldn't let him be supportive of me. Um, what?