I never thought such things would bother me because long term T frequently cut her hair because she kept it pretty short so it didnt bother me.

Current T though, kept it one length for about thr first two years which was fairly short. Then last year she cut it really short and it seemed weird; partially because it is not my favorite hair style on anybody. I am use to it now but in the beginning I had to avoid looking at her face when we were talking anything emotional. The same thing happened thr one day that she sat in a regular chair vs. her exercise ball.