I am really concerned that your T comments on your appearance in this way at all. Everything she says is just her opinion, and doesn’t really have a place in session. I was bulimic when I was a teenager, but it wasn’t anything to do with wanting to be skinny or small or staying childlike and fragile, it was just about control for me.

I would have to disagree that thinner bodies are more beautiful. Personally I find healthy bodies and confident people beautiful. Skinny doesn’t always mean healthy, especially when it comes to eating disorders.

Sorry your T doesn’t seem to give what you need, I hope she will change for the better after you tell her how you feel.