My T does not push me to do anything. I push myself to set new goals and achieve them. It’s hard work to break out of my comfort zone and take risks but so very worth it in the end. If my T were to push me, I’d probably feel like she was in my way and I don’t think that would feel very good to me. I want to be the one to own my decisions and my goals and I feel like my T supports me by staying on the sidelines. I have a feeling that my T is rooting for me every step of the way and that feels good to me. It feels right to me.