I remember one conversation a guy had with me about moving away from his family

he was thinking about moving away and he asked me what I thought

and I'm like just go. no real thought to if he mightm iss them, or where he might go, just do it. get it over with

and yes: I admit at the time I was thinking about my family, and my experience. usually though I like to think I am a good listener and people have said it to me sometimes.

I know my moodswings have hurt a lot of people, and spoiled a lot of good friendships, too