I know this sounds crazy, but I just asked my husband if he knew that his mother and sister never miss their Soap Opera's. I have never been a fan of that kind of stuff, but they even tape it!! I think spending that much time and all the drama...makes them conniving people. It seems that they aren't happy till some drama is going on. I even told them I was ok with us not having a relationship and that it was better for everyone involved. I told them that my number 1 concern was what was within these walls. With kids and and ex we have enough of our own drama !!I need no more!!!
And I don't why this is brothering me more than my husband. He told me this morning that I am letting this bother me more than I should. He said that it was hard and took along time, but he realizes that he will always be the black sheep, they will always treat him different and that they will never change. He said that he doesn't care about what they approve of, this is the way it is. And then he said I need to move on.
But I know he is still hurt. He said last night...my parents didn't even give me a birthday card. That's what hurts me the most, to see him sad. And then it angers me...and I want to ram there car...not that I would...but make them listen. Then i would end up with a broke car and the relasonship no better...