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Constantly and they can not tell if you are looking them up or not. What has been great is if they post on a facebook group that is public even though you have to join to post, their comments will show up in your search. I have found so much information on what my x-T is doing by his post in public groups.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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