This is very interesting, everyone! I am giving a lot of thought to what all of you have said. Thanks so much!!! I hope more comments will come, too.

Some very good points were made. I like what kd says about level of comfort, and also what wants says about generations being different because of technology. Poppet, I also like the thought that what makes an idea parent is different for each of us.

1day, if you don't mind my asking, how old are you? I think I imagined you as older than you are, if we are in the same generation.

Thanks everyone!!!
Angela