I've talked to him on video chat and on the phone. I've seen him . He is real and not catfishing me. It is interesting that you would think I would falls for someone I have never seen. I have been there so I don't do such things anymore. He is who he says he is. And, he is on linked in and facebook where I am friends with him. He also has written research papers since he is a professor. He is too busy these days to talk with me because of his mother's situation. I don't talk to him that much anymore. So, the contact may just die from lack of communication. I wrote about him because I like him but realize that he may not be too interested in me. It is ok. Life continues. I write him and send him pictures still. But, he just reads my messages these days and says nothing because he is too involved with his mother's care. He is not a bad person. He knows I don't have much money so I don't think he is interested in me for money which he has enough anyways. He knows me well and is nice to me. This means a lot to me. I may or may not meet him if he comes here. I will wait to see what happens but am not holding my breath about it.