I am sorry that your session revolved around your wife. However, it's important to listen to what she shares because you will learn important things about her, things you cannot change. And things she will not want to change in your relationship. This is when you find out if the relationship has any hope to repair or if it's healthier for you to end it. Sometimes, no matter how much we want another person to be "the one" it can turn out to be they simply don't have it in them to ever be "the one".