Hi everyone. So a few weeks back T started randomly texting me out of nowhere. Maybe one or two times a week. It's appropriate content like, "I'm thinking of you." But it is random because I didn't text her first. The only thing I have ever texted her about is scheduling. Not to tell her that I'm in crisis. Not to tell her that I'm sui. Nothing like that. Only scheduling. Oh and billing. Because she was sending the bills to the wrong part of my insurance. So today I had a text from last night that said "Thinking of you and sending happy thoughts"


There's nothing wrong with that statement. I'm just baffled. Why would she out of the blue start texting me? There's no way I'm going to bring it up to her. Because I'm not good at that sort of thing. I just worry about my T sometimes because every so often she can be a bit odd. She will forget things that I just told her in the same session for example. But not always. Just now and then. Or she will say something randomly that doesn't fit with our conversation. Again, not always, just once in a while. So I wonder if this texting thing which has come on suddenly and isn't intrusive is just a quirk that my T has picked up?

Not really sure if I should be worried or not. It just seems like a boundary crossing that is unnecessary. So when I got her text today that she sent last night, I texted her back and told her about my cat because I thought the text should be answered but I didn't want to say something like "Thinking of you too" because that is not the truth and it would be odd and overly familiar.


I don't know. Maybe it is nothing to worry about. Just why she started doing it out of nowhere is what gets me. If she had done it all along the whole time I had seen her I'd be like, oh that's just T. But because it suddenly started happening a couple of weeks ago, it just seems really odd to me. But I guess since I'm not going to do anything about it, I should shut up. Just wondered if anyone else had this experience or if I should be worried. Or if this is harmless.