See i feel like i havent waited around a super long time to throw in the towel qite yet. But it’s getting to that point considering he will barely talk about it ya know? It’s almost like he wants to prove he can do well on his own , not to stereotype but by being a “man” if that makes sense? Like i want to contribute to things, and i do, but when it comes to moving or getting a house, he’ll make the excuse that he doesnt have enough for the downpayment, yet the houses Ive showed him are sooo much cheaper and we def have enough to put a good chunk down, but he strives for the best, which thrres nothing wrong with that! But like combined we have a decent amount for a house but hes like.. only counting how much he can save otherwise he feels like a failure...or if he finds a house he wants it to be k250-k300+ meanwhile I’ve founf beautiful homes for 100k[emoji2368] so it’s like he wants to be the best or like.. not bother trying.. and it’s frustrating because i want to plan ahead , set goals and work towards them together but he has this like... ego getting in the way:/... i guess a lot of women would be happy for a guy who wants x,y,z but i want to feel included, or idk maybe im too cheap for him...? I know he is generally afraid of failure, i know thatd why he stopped looking for work because hes said he feels no other place would want him:/... it’s a weird mix of lack of confidence and fear of failure but like.. i want to move[emoji24]and get a better job, and get more space and do more things and hes just.... content in his little bubble just dreaming of doing those things:/...