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Originally Posted by divine1966
Honestly the way I operate is if I want a better job and a better place etc I go for it. You don’t need a man to have a good life. And I’d not be buying houses with a man who doesn’t want commitment. You want things that he doesn’t want so sitting around and waiting is a waste of time. Plenty of men are ready to commit and go for it. Why wait for this one. Just my take on it
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He does want the commitment, thats not the issue. The issue is him being afraid to do anything for fear of failing.. so he’ll make excuse after excuse why he wont attempt something to stall, or he wants to prove he can do something on his own[emoji2368]. I don’t need a man to do those things, but when you’re in a relationship you dont just pick up and move because the other person isn’t sure or ready on the idea yet. The problem is that i wish he’d actually man up and talk about it so we can meet somewhere in the middle or at least get a better understanding of what the other is thinking, but again, he’ll change the subject because it’s uncomfortable. It’s not that he doesnt want to get a house or get married, or whatever it’s that he thinks no one will hire him, that he wants to prove he can provide a home, etc.