Of course you can keep waiting. You can spend another 20 years hoping he’ll change. And he might never change. In a meanwhile life will be passing you by. Some women find themselves in advanced age still waiting for their husbands to change after 30-40 years of marriage. And they still complain about same thing they complained years ago.

You said you wish he did this or that. But wishing something isn’t going to make it so. Things are the way they are and people are who they are. I believe in being with people who are on the same page instead of wishing they change. But sometimes that wisdom comes with age. You might still be very young

Good luck