Christmas part of the overall challenge after a surgery is how it takes the brain a few months to overcome the affects of the anesthesia.

Also yes often medical staff can be cold and even act like they are impositioned by the care you need from them. I experienced that myself after going through life saving surgery. Just remember it’s their job and they are being paid to help you. Don’t feel guilty for needing help.

Are you home or are you in a hospital or rehabilitation facility?