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Originally Posted by tryingtobeconstruct
I have no contact with her at all. I haven't had any contact with her after she told me she didn't want to see me. But we live in the same town and have some mutual acquaintences.
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Maybe it’ll help to distance yourself from the mutual acquaintances.
There are qualities your imagination attributes to her that she probably doesn’t really possess. It’s a crush that you think would be so great if it would materialize, but it probably wouldn’t in reality.
I suspect these obsessive attractions are about not being able to have what we want to have, but it’s an illusion that we imagine it would be if it really happened...if that makes sense.