I am so Sorry for what you're going through, @equinox101! Consulting a lawyer won't Hurt. I'd suggest to give it a try and Listen to him. I COMPLETELY Agree with @Vegansphynx about choosing your own path. Do what you feel like it would be the BEST option for EveryOne. Definitely listen to the WISE and WONDERFUL @Vegansphynx! I Hope that things will turn out REALLY Well! Sending many Safe, Warm Hugs to BOTH you, @equinox101, your Family, your FriEnds, your Daughter, your Wife, your Therapist, your Mother-In-Law, your Parents and EVERYONE of your Loved Ones! Try to do your best! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK?!