Yesterday I was proud of a task. Due to many negative interactions with medical professionals and staff I always assume their anger, snarly attitude etc is all to do with me. I phoned my surgeons receptionist mentioning my swelling, do I need to come in., suggestions. She was slightly snarky and automatic response would be oh no its me.. If the other surgeon at your recent follow up was not concerned its probably nothing. She explained email her photos next week if not improved, she will show surgeon. I did not feel as anxious.