Hi there. If I were you, I would cut ALL contact with your entire family. It is most disturbing what they have been doing to you, which is beyond abuse. They are extremely toxic and are messing with your lives. I wouldn't want anything to do with them, if it were me. I know it may be difficult to cut ties with your family, but since they are SO toxic to you, it really is in your best interests and for your own health, safety and well being. Hugs to you, and welcome to the forums. I hope you find some comfort and good support here.