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5 years has past and look how still emotionally charged this is for you. The hurt is so great. How am I ever to get over my issues over my x-T? It makes me so angry this happens to us from therapy. I do not know the solution and all my research, reading about it, knowing and understanding does not make it any better.
Yes I too am grateful for this forum as it shows me I am not CRAZY and what I am going through and feeling is actually a thing. You know misery loves company.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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