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Originally Posted by swimmingly
I think I have what I call a judgement complex. I'm always thinking other can tell that I'm mentally ill, and are judging me. Not much happens because most of the time I avoid a conflict. I'm pretty much an amiable person and will swallow the hurt feeling and move on.
Are you more likely to walk towards or away from a conflict? It could be one involving you personally (a real or perceived) or something else.
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I very much dislike conflict, but I will occasionally walk towards it if I feel it is for the best, in some way. Sometimes I am proved wrong, though. I think that one positive attribute of mine is that I am pretty good about making peace after conflicts. Often I am the one that apologizes even if another person is partly or fully at fault. I think most people will come to a truce or let bygones be bygones, but others have a more stubborn way and hold permanent grudges. That's sad for me, but in a way even sadder for them.
Q: What is something you wish you said to someone, but didn't?