I think that transference lessens when we have other relationships or things that consume our time and attention so BetterHelp is right in that regard. But, we will repeat the behavior until we find a way out.

Some therapists cannot deal with transference and others will not. I wonder if some of it has to do with how much time insurance companies are willing to pay and for how long. Ts may want to spend time dealing on things that are getting in the way of us having fulfilling, productive lives even though painful transference can stop us in our tracks.