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Aug 02, 2020, 12:32 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: Ontario Land
Posts: 3,592
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Thank you all for the replies. I appreciate them.
I had to quote everyone the long way, because the multi-quote button didn't work.
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Do you think he could just switch to platonic friendship?
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No, I don’t think he can.
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He was out of line when he asked you to be a person he could cheat on his wife with.
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He was definitely out of line.
When he told me how he felt, I wasn’t flattered at all. I actually felt very uncomfortable, like I was suddenly relegated to what I call 'object status' and pushed into the middle of their relationship problems, a place that I never wanted to be in.
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You are friends with her too right?
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Yes, which makes this very awkward.
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If it were me, that would be awkward to see them together and have to act normal after someone's husband came on to me.
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It was very awkward when I last saw them. I’m not very good at acting, so I had to limit my time in their presence. Plus his wife was acting strange. Her communication was indirect and a bit nasty.
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Are you going to tell his wife?
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No, it’s not my place to say anything. Telling her would also create a lot of unnecessary drama. Anyway, she might already know.
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He is not respectful to his wife or to you.
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He definitely hasn’t been respectful especially to his wife.
I’m not going to continue my friendship with this couple. It’s not worth it. It’s sad, but I know it is the right thing to do.
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