My ex-T didn't outright say she didn't have the emotional resources to cope with me, but that was pretty much the picture I got from the things she did say. We terminated ... nearly a year ago, but then made an attempt to look back and put together some sort of a narrative of what happened. That ended with failure ... I think it was the end of February ... and now am working with another therapist since April, ex-T-stuff getting significant focus, still very painful.

I guess now would be a good time to start using the forums to help figure it out, but trying to think about this tends to put me into this wounded-child mode which is very impractical when trying to get stuff done. Will have a session tomorrow, so I'll ask new T to maybe shift the main focus to this, and see where that gets me.