Hey MaigerTom, My Dad had essential tremours so I know abit what you're going thru. My dad was a hard nut. Meaning he had brain stimulators and none stopped the tremours. Medicines up the ying yang. Dad didn't like to eat out because of his tremours. We, siblings, called him Shaky. You have to laugh or else you would cry....
I'm on your side, my dear.