I used to have a friend at school who was obsessed with jazz music. I wasn't a fan of it, (still not really fan), but it was his birthday and I wanted to get him something.

anyway: I managed to find him a box set cd called the a-z of jazz
and the first thing he said to me when I gave it to him?
oh I have all these artists on other albumns

and I'm thinking oh wow. how was I to know that. I just got you a 6 cd box set of jazz music, and I know nothing about jazz. you could at least thank me for the effert.

but nothing

I am sorry with what you went through with your family.

honestly my whole family are