Good on you by standing up for yourself, @Have Hope! Yes, it is unfortunate that that cat is making so much noise. Perhaps try to talk to your husband about ALL of this? In any case, try to hang in there for a week at least. Perhaps try some ear-plugs? From what you wrote, it seems like your husband is distressed by ALL of this as well, so perhaps he will UnderstAnd if you talk to him about ALL of this, especially since he seems to have listened to you about Everything else. Give it a try! Please do your best! SEnding maby Safe, Warm hugs to BOTH you, @Have Hope, your Family, your FriEnds, your husband and EVERYONE and your Loved Ones! Keep Fighting and keep rocking no matter What Happens, OK?!