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Old Aug 03, 2020, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted by BethRags View Post
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I wonder if therapy is due for a sea-change? Too many already damaged people are severely damaged by inadequate therapists. The power balance is messy and awkward, at best - devastating, at worst.
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I came across this article this morning, about Internal Family Systems as a different paradigm.

https://elemental.medium.com/inside-...r-8be035d54770

and posted the link on the Interesting Psychotherapy Articles. But it seems relevant to Beth's comment above, too.

My last therapist was a trauma specialist, diagnosed me with what was then DDNOS and would now probably be OSDD. Talk therapy with her dealt with "parts", too.. But then, as I have said, she couldn't tolerate one or more of my "parts". WHAT THE H. . .???

Another interesting quote from the article

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All too often, patients in today’s U.S. mental health system fall into a downward spiral of increasing diagnoses and increasing medication.
I didn't get into increasing medication but I did go into a downward spiral. Where I'm still stuck! I have been finding some relief with meditation in the last few years, so I found this very interesting as well:

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If a patient got all their parts to step aside, protectors and exiles alike, something curious happened. They entered a state of mind far clearer and more joyful than any they seemed able to maintain in day-to-day life: calm, confident, curious, compassionate.

“What part is this?” Schwartz asked, amazed, the first few times it happened. He always got the same answer: “This doesn’t feel like a part. It just feels like myself.”

So Schwartz decided to call it Self: a unified mode of consciousness that seemed to lie just beneath all the sound and fury of parts, surprisingly reminiscent of the clear mental waters that Buddhists sought with mindfulness meditation.
Hmm. . .

I couldn't find any empirical studies of IFS in a brief search on the web. That's probably something that will be needed if there really is to be a paradigm shift. Even though, of course, empirical facts aren't the main thing that make a paradigm shift.
Thanks for this!
*Beth*, Quietmind 2