Hi Peanuts!
Thanks for taking time to read and post. You're guess on ODD is correct. IED is Intermittent Explosive Disorder.
It's definitely quite a process we are looking at. And I do appreciate your help, coming from a seasoned veteran.
My grandson was dx'ed by the school psychologist. They have been wonderful in accomodating Larz's issues and finding things that help him. They have kept my daughter informed daily and work with her to give Larz the best support and experiences they can. I believe they will now be testing for sensory issues. They do believe he has some problems there. He does not have ADD/ADHD.
We have a team meeting at the school on Friday. I live out of state and will be traveling there to attend. My daughter is strong and I'm so proud of how she is handling this, but I am worried for her and she is scared. She is a single mom, so she really has her plate full. I have been and will continue to support in every way I can.
Thanks for listing the books you found helpful. I will definitely look into them too.
Hope you don't mind if at some point I pick your brain about some issues.
Thanks so very much! Take good care