What is an example of wishy washiness? What specific thing happened? I have noticed in you a tendency to speak in quite vague terms often, without specific details. It makes it hard to know what is actually going on. Do you see this at all?

I cannot afford a T rt now either. Shame, but we do what we must do. I try to read stuff, do yoga, meditate, exercise. What I can.

Asparagae, I care deeply about you, I truly do. It has been my observation over the months listening to you that decision-making can sometimes be a challenging area for you. I relate to that. Do you have thoughts about what could be behind this difficulty? Is there fear about something?

For me, it is only the biggest decisions. My fear is that my life will be forever ruined if I make the wrong choice.

Hugs!!