I was abused as a child, molested by a non family member, domestic abuse (relationship). All this led to me believing I was nothing and became a doormat. During my young adult years I was the family scapegoat, parents spoke negative about me to siblings and vice versa. It took one life and death situation (not abuse) for me to wake up. I woke up one day and said no more! I spoke to family this needs to stop. I was told your too sensitive. I limited contact and eventually cut them off completely. I walked away from a few insensitive doctors too.

If someone is normally respectful,and suddenly is rude once or twice, I tell myself maybe its a personal issue and let it go. If you are rude or insensitive on a consistent basis you will be cut off.