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Old Aug 07, 2020, 06:17 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
So why is the therapist encouraging me to work through it and stay together with him? He is seeing both of us together and separate?
Yes... and in a different thread of yours, I had stated that it's a bad therapist.

That's highly unethical of the therapist to see you both independently and together. You should each have your own therapist, and then a different therapist whom you see together. This therapist seems biased towards whatever your husband is telling them.

My own therapist told me she would not see my husband and I together and that she could not function as our couples therapist for just this reason.

If you want a truly objective viewpoint, I suggest a completely separate couples therapist.

An unethical one is not going to give the best guidance.
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Last edited by Have Hope; Aug 07, 2020 at 06:34 AM.