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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
So why is the therapist encouraging me to work through it and stay together with him? He is seeing both of us together and separate?
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Yes... and in a different thread of yours, I had stated that it's a bad therapist.
That's
highly unethical of the therapist to see you both independently and together. You should each have your own therapist, and then a different therapist whom you see together. This therapist seems biased towards whatever your husband is telling them.
My own therapist told me she would not see my husband and I together and that she could not function as our couples therapist for just this reason.
If you want a truly objective viewpoint, I suggest a completely separate couples therapist.
An unethical one is not going to give the best guidance.