That's nice you made a connection, but what happened to focusing on your own life? In your last thread, that's what you stated. Why are you still trying to connect with a man, especially long distance when in reality it probably cannot even materialize? You must be very lonely, is my guess, and I think you're having a lot of trouble sitting with yourself, by yourself and working on your life without a man being involved in some way. I am not judging you, I am just being honest with what I see you doing. What's so wrong with focusing on YOU?