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Here is something else I was thinking about.. it seems like my brother really wants to have to come "save me" and I have never given him that opportunity. I am definitely independent and if my arm was sticking sideways out of my body i wouldn't give him that opportunity. He doesn't like that. He wants to be my "savior" and because I won't give him that, he dislikes me. My cousins are really messed up people but because they always say how great he is he would prefer to spend time with them because they stroke his ego.
I often look at the boards and think maybe people who are mentally ill are that way because of a dysfunctional family. I know a lot of people who have families that are proud to say -- out loud - they love their family and want to do everything with them. But mine is not like that and really messed up.
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