So this isn’t a family friend? It’s somebody she met on FB?

You’ve been only married a year so how are you having kids together? Whose son is it? Yours? I’d not allow it. I’d not tolerate it if my husband was meeting women on FB snd go to their houses with MY daughter.

If you don’t know this man, it’s highly inappropriate for your wife to be meeting with him.

My husband has female friends (he is in a traditionally female profession so these are current and former colleagues or former classmates who became friends, he also has mostly traditionally female hobbies so some are hobby group people) but I know them too and he isn’t going around meeting them alone. We do group outings. Me and him and they with their husbands/boyfriends