Great, she just came home and was mad because I was home all day and the house was messy. Ok, fine. She starts talking all sarcastically. Another ironic coincidence, all the kids were on their ipads so I said, the kids are busy, do you want to talk about it? She said, "no, what's the point, you don't care".

I calmly said ok. She ranted for another minute and then walked away. So, basically what we talked about with HER issues instantly went out the window. I was supposed to come to her on HER issues when the kids were busy. I did exactly that and she still won't let me talk.

Sorry, I'm not meeting her halfway on this one unless she apologizes. I tried and tried. I just can't talk to her. Not on my issues, not on her issues. Total stonewall. Total bs.