My brother does not like me either. He has always tried to hurt me in some way. Now, he won't talk to me because I am free and independent. He used to grind an ax into my side by putting me down and making fun of my illness. He is not doing well himself. He is a loser in my book. He mooches off my family and has no real job. He was a professional student but used none of his degrees to get a job. He is a jerk on top of this to everybody. I think he is a sociopath. It is sad but he is my brother. But, someone told me to forget about him and live my life. So, I am. You can't choose your family members, but you can choose your friends.