I just re read your post freewill and I see those words again,
"You really like this, don't you?" ... can you imagine the ignorance that is behind those words? It is either ignorance or evil itself as with my teacher.

What kind of idiots can say that? "You really liked it didn't you?"

If it is evilness, our words will not change them. If it is ignorance, they cannot learn from our explanation. Maybe it would do them well to visit a site like this to see the damage that all of this does. I cannot wish upon them any personal experience, but I can hope for their education.

Please do not hurt yourself, freewill. You are a quality person. The stupidity of your ex and others is no reason to multiply your own pain. There are others here who have known the same kind of pain and they
bring understanding and hope.

None of us can feel your exact pain, but we can feel a pain of our own as we empathize with what you are going through. And we will feel joy as you get beyond this and feel better.

I haven't experienced all that you have, but I have experienced being told that "you must have enjoyed that" and I know how it makes a person feel.

And I know the courage it takes for you to post all of this here. You are brave and courageous. I know you'll make it.

Troy