The weight comment would freak me out too. Perna, I've done the opposite. Just before starting therapy, I decided that I had let myself totally go physically. I had been sick a lot the winter before starting so, I was scared and focused. I've only mentioned my weight loss a few times in therapy when it related to my H. I think therapy has helped reduce my stress so indirectly has helped with my weight loss. I know she has likely, noted the change in my file somewhere, because it has been noticeable.

After about 3-4 session, I got angry/frustrated and sent an email, requesting my medical records saying I was considering stopping. This was the only time my T actually called me. In the end I scheduled an exit appointment and then ended up continuing. The topic of my records was not raised. I wonder sometimes what the hell might be in my record at this point.