Thank you so much @rebecca1938
It means a lot to me to have someone understand. Just right now he's banging around here, stomping, opening my door taking a fit because he can't find a lighter. I honestly hope I don't get any housing, we will both be homeless but I'd rather do that then put up with the disrespect. Whatever is wrong with him, I'm still trying to get the doc who is away to follow up with getting him a psychiatrist. I wish you all the best through this tough life!!