One other thing I wanted to add is a very very important point.....you say you participate in church.....they you do know what the values you really have for the life you want to live in terms of that.......those terms are between God & you.....no one else is involved...you are not living to please anyone else in this world....those are the values that is you hold to them...you will do what you feel is the right thing to do....not just things that make you a "good girl" in the sight of others, or make you feel like a normal teenager. You should never do things to make you feel like someone else wants or is like...you have to live your life with your own values & be the kind of person that YOU WANT to be.

Live to love yourself & please your God & you will never be wrong,
Debbie