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Old Aug 09, 2020, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted by bpforever1 View Post
He is ok. I am realizing he spends half of his time exercising and staying in shape though. He looks like a male model. I like him but when we speak he can't talk much English so we just smile a lot. I think he is great-looking but know that this type of relationship is rather superficial and vapid. But, he is nice. We are both poor and have this is common. But, otherwise, I am wondering what is going to keep us together. He has many women who come on to him. So, I don't know what he sees in me except that I look young for my age and am nice too. I am not sure that smiling and looking good are going to keep us together but at least we can be friends.
If he cannot speak much English what’s the point here? Smiling a lot on a video call can’t go too far. And if you’re both broke, how would you even meet? It does sound shallow... meaning not enough to keep it going. I’ve found that guys who work out a ton are superficial and are really into their looks.

How old is he to still be living with his mother? You’re independent. I would think you’d want a guy who is also independent and self sufficient.
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