I recall replying to your post in the New Members Introductions forum. I'm sorry I don't really have any useful suggestions to offer you myself. The only thing that occurs to me would be to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline & see if they might have any suggestions. Here's a link to their website, which includes their phone number, along with their text information just in case you're unfamiliar with it:
National Domestic Violence Hotline | Get Help Today | 1-800-799-7233
or text: LOVEIS to 22522
My best wishes to you...