Yes my T got married. She mentioned it in passing and I realised I had some strong feelings about it so I discussed it with her. I have an erotic transference towards her which was part of it, but I was also scared that her marriage would mean things changing between us (I know this links to other stuff from the past). T is quite open about her life generally, it's how she works, but she is always equally open to hearing how anything in her life is affecting me and we talk about it, over and over if necessary.