well when I use to live at home my mom use to buy herbal teas,laxitives,diet pills and left food on her plate and not finish her dinner. A few years later when I 1st met her she was wasted away to a size 00. we use to go to the gym together and I got bulimic after that. How do I help her? I promised Id bring her to a spa day and lunch out. Just so she can eat more.what do I do?